• @DaddleDew@lemmy.world
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    1112 months ago

    A lot of people I’ve seen in Lamborghini cars aren’t serious about their lives. They’re spoiled idiots who lucked out and got a ton of money handed to them and are driving it around to show off how much money they have as if they deserved it.

    • @RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works
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      582 months ago

      I have a buddy who wanted a Ferrari and a Lambo since they were a kid. They finally got to the point where they bought the Ferrari only to realize he has a wife and kid. The kid can’t safely ride in the Ferrari for 12+ years and he can’t fit 3 people in the car so he sold it. These aren’t cars for people with normal lives.

      • @frezik@midwest.social
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        I’m an enthusiast with no kids (and a vasectomy to make sure it stays that way) and I’ve driven both around a track. Glad to have done it once, but I’m not in any hurry to do it again. Wouldn’t buy either one over my Miata.

        Supercars are vastly overrated.

        • @Buddahriffic@lemmy.world
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          Yeah, that’s my thought, though I have a kid. Doesn’t really matter if I just want to rent one to have fun driving for a bit (other than if she’d find it cool to ride in one). Would be fun for a bit and then a huge liability to own one. Especially with how much attention they’d get. You’d get random butt prints from assholes taking pictures with it, not to mention some others driving nearby will get more aggressive when they see what you’re driving, making accidents more likely. Not to mention everything about it will be very expensive.

          And, at least based on video games, you’d barely ever get out of 1st or 2nd gear in normal driving unless you want to risk getting it seized (or worse) for excessive speeding.

          Also, make one mistake with the throttle and a video of you spinning into a curb or something could go viral if it’s one of the rear drive supercars.

      • @Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        12 months ago

        If he didn’t realize these things before making the purchase, it would seem like he falls qualifies for the idiot side with a sprinkle of luck.

        By chance was he able to afford it because of inheritance? Only a fool takes that kind of money to splurge on a vehicle and he would then fit exactly into the sot op laid out.

        • @Honytawk@feddit.nl
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          222 months ago

          Normal mainly implies average.

          The average person has a spouse and a kid. So the statement is not wrong.

          Doesn’t mean you can’t have a normal life without a wife or a kid. It just doesn’t mean average then.

            • @Cypher@lemmy.world
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              72 months ago

              The average man has one testicle, the average woman one breast and they both only have one eye.

              There might be some better way of measuring this than a mathematical average, some means of describing the most common grouping in a given cohort, but that’s for smarter men than I.

          • @kinsnik@lemmy.world
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            Doesn’t mean you can’t have a normal life without a wife or a kid. It just doesn’t mean average then.

            wait. so normal means average, or normal does not mean average?

            • @RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works
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              Only if you take it that way and if you choose to do so that is on you.

              Im the guy who wrote the post. Im an aromantic bisexual, would call that normal? I also have no kids

              • @HalfSalesman@lemm.ee
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                12 months ago

                Perhaps I came off as too hostile. I read your comment and I thought it was potentially harmful and I’m incredibly depressed, so I wrote a hasty sniping response. I tend to think of things said as their effects in aggregate rather than the virtue of the person saying it.

                I’m also bi and arguably aromantic. And intend to remain childfree.

          • @HalfSalesman@lemm.ee
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            02 months ago

            I consider it normative to suggest that such is “normal” and suggests not having a wife or kid(s) as “abnormal”. At least by implication.

            • @Damage@feddit.it
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              Yeah, it’s rather normal to have a wife and progeny, most people do, that’s what normal means. You seem to be fishing for outrage, but you are missing that normal does not imply good, and not normal does not mean bad. Being astoundingly beautiful is not normal, but it’s commonly seen as positive.

  • @Zink@programming.dev
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    452 months ago

    Notice the implied and unquestioned assumption that “life goals” means accumulating resources and not building relationships or contributing to society. In fact, it’s expected that personal relationships and societal responsibilities shall be neglected in the quest for resources.

    • @RadicalEagle@lemmy.world
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      I think the current online alpha male culture is a marketing tool meant to validate the antisocial beliefs of potential customers in order to convert them into paying customers.

    • @Soup@lemmy.world
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      It’s very likely that it’s all about justification of where someone is more than it is about getting to where someone truly wants to be. Making a lot of positive changes is hard but claiming that you actually really wanted whatever shitty outcome is “easier”.

      In the ‘80s it was about claiming you definitely weren’t buying your friends and, if you were, that was some kind of cool power thing and not horrifically depressing for all parties involved. These days most of the world hates these losers, and for good reason, so they shift the blame away from themselves in a desperate attempt to pretend that they aren’t at fault.

      We’re social animals and we want genuine connection. The alpha males are deeply lonely and angry about it all the time but try soooo hard to pretend they aren’t which only makes them sadder and madder.

  • lurch (he/him)
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    332 months ago

    man, those guilt coping posts. maybe just do the right thing, so you don’t need to make up bullshit to feel good

  • @Rooskie91@discuss.online
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    222 months ago

    I fucking hate people that act like they escaped the matrix because they drive a personally owned vehicle.

    Like wow you’re really showing us public transit welfare queens what true independence looks like, gripping a steering wheel in a vehicle they can only legally operate with a government-issued license, on a road built and maintained by the government, cleared of snow by government workers driving government-owned trucks, fueled by government-subsidized oil, and parked in government-funded lots. Let’s not forget they had to go to a government building, talk to a government employee, and pay a government fee just for the privilege of registering their car — which they’re also legally required by the government to insure. And after all that bureaucratic red tape and recurring fees, they have the audacity to act like they’re the icons of self-sufficiency. The cherry on top? If their precious symbol of ‘independence’ breaks down, the government isn’t going to help — they get to shoulder the repair costs entirely on their own.

    Meanwhile, I swipe a card once a month and get access to a system that moves people efficiently, doesn’t ask for my blood type, and doesn’t require me to pour thousands into maintenance and paperwork — and I’m the one supposedly suckling at the teat of Big Government?

    Ok.

    • @Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world
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      As someone who owns a vehicle, I feel more like I’ve escaped the matrix when on public transportation than when I’m driving. I still have to have a car to get places public transit won’t go, but I always look forward to the completion of each new station, one more area I don’t have to drive to.

      • @Phen@lemmy.eco.br
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        I rarely go farther from my home than I can go in a few minutes in my bycicle, so I never felt the need for a car. But once every few months I would need to go somewhere that is two hours away by bus, often with inconvenient bus timings (like either 6am or noon) - so I sometimes take an Uber instead.

        When people her about me taking an Uber for such a “long” trip they call me insane, say that I’m wasting money and I should just get a car and those trips would be much cheaper. They never consider all the other costs involved in owning a car.

        But then after a while people in my town started giving up on Uber and it became hard to find a driver whenever I might need one, so I finally got a driving license and bought myself a bike. People now were like “you’ll see how it changes you, you’ll use it for everything, you’ll go out a lot more often and to everywhere with it”. By the time I had a trip to make it was no longer turning on due to being stuck in a garage for so long. The counter showed less than 20 kilometers when I sold it.

        • You are definitely singing the song of my people. I bought my car when I was working 2 jobs with heavy overtime, and it mattered a lot that I could drive 20 minutes instead of the 1hr bus ride. I put about 20k kilometers on the odometer. Things changed recently, and I’ve found myself doing maintenance on it based on a time schedule rather than distance. I could buy 200 round-trip Uber rides per year for what I’m paying.

          I tried getting into cycling, but there’s a lack of cycle paths and protected bike lanes here. It’s one of those areas that has “sharrows.” Pro tip: drivers do not share the road even with the sharrows.

  • People who are serious about life value long term benefit over short term material goods. Public transportation is a public good for all and in the long term will save you a ton of money.

  • kn0wmad1c
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    192 months ago

    If you need a meme to feel good about your decisions, then maybe make better decisions.

    • @explodicle@sh.itjust.works
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      32 months ago

      Commute friends are great. You’ve got a pleasant conversation for the ride, and another source of information when your ride is canceled.

    • Depending on the route, I’d argue that you should be careful what you wish for. Having said that, I found your response extremely wholesome to a Kenneth Parcell level.

      “Oh, hi, new friend! Is that a test tube in your mouth? You must be a scientist!”

      “Golly, that sure is a big knife! Thanks for defending all of us bus friends!”

  • atro_city
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    82 months ago

    Engineering decisions: how can make something that pollutes to the legal max both in particles, noise, and, come to think of it, any aspect possible? Oh, I know, a car!

  • @finitebanjo@lemmy.world
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    72 months ago

    It’s a great meme, but I do cringe a little bit at the idea of engineers designing the car while already having built most of it.

    • @kossa@feddit.org
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      Those engineers just got serious about their lifes. You can crank out way more products if you skip designing them, it is the engineer hustle 🔧😎

      And if they didn’t decide yet, they could always just bolt more seats to the roof.