• @ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de
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    32 days ago

    Shoes the same on the other foot, pal. Especially considering how often it’s been studied that women stop taking the pill without telling their spouses and then lie to them after getting pregnant, claiming how “crazy and unexpected” it was to get pregnant while on birth control.

    • @superkret@feddit.org
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      02 days ago

      The difference is that the worst possible outcome for men is a financial burden.
      The worst outcome for women is an unplanned pregnancy, which no matter if you abort it or not, has a very severe effect on the body and mind, on top of everything else.

      • @chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        2 days ago

        Either way it would be a betrayal of trust that robs you of agency over your own life. That’s definitely not just financial either, any non-sociopath would also have to worry about protecting the wellbeing of their child who a terrible person has parental rights over.