• SomeLemmyUser
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    1 month ago

    Honest question from a non native: what is wrong with the term female?

    And what word could you use for the sex girls and women are part of where people wouldn’t imagine you look like a space neolib?

    • @xx3rawr@sh.itjust.works
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      01 month ago

      Non-native as well but for me, “female” is an adjective and only used as a noun in technical setting. If used in regular conversation setting, it’s condescending and dehumanizing.

      Good:

      • There are fifteen females in the survey.
      • The female is more aggressive, typical of hyenas.
      • You bought the wrong USB cable, this one is a female.

      Bad:

      • This female is not very good at her job.
      • You females need to tone it down.
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        1 month ago

        Also interesting because in German progressive/queer feminist groups use the term

        “Weiblich gelesen” (literal: read female, meaning: assumed to be female)

        If we want to refer to someone who looks like a women by conservative standards but about whom we don’t know if they actually identify as a women.

        “Weib” (degrading term for “women/wife” derived from the word “weiblich” (female)) on the other hand is considered very rude and only used by conservative/sexist people.

        Just find it interesting which words are differently connotated in which language.