Why can’t they just consciously recognize “I find them attractive and I totally would if they were up for it, but they aren’t, and that’s okay” and then let it go?
Because then their friends call them f-slurs and tell everyone they’re gay for not wanting to have wild sex with every attractive girl/woman they come across.
Also self-defeating because if you never hang out with the opposite gender unless you’re trying to go for sexytime, you’re going to be bad at it. You need the low stakes experience first.
this shit is so lame
Why can’t they just consciously recognize “I find them attractive and I totally would if they were up for it, but they aren’t, and that’s okay” and then let it go?
Or even just “this person is attractive but I’m not interested in changing our relationship”
Or even “this person is attractive and I would be interested in changing our relationship, but they aren’t, and that’s okay”
Because then their friends call them f-slurs and tell everyone they’re gay for not wanting to have wild sex with every attractive girl/woman they come across.
I doubt most incels make it to the actual rejection part.
that phrase is equivalent to “wanting sex”, it’s just the healthy expression of it because of all the extra words.
Also self-defeating because if you never hang out with the opposite gender unless you’re trying to go for sexytime, you’re going to be bad at it. You need the low stakes experience first.