I have seen the quoted take unironically upvoted here on Hexbear

  • Lussy [any, hy/hym]
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    3 days ago

    “if you have difficulties socializing, maybe you’re just a horrible person”

    I’ve seen that quite a bit, especially when it comes to the realm of dating.

    But enjoying solitary things is counterrevolutionairy is not something I’ve really seen on here and I think sometbing might be lost in translation. But hey, you’re probably right!

      • Blakey [he/him]
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        123 days ago

        Yeah, I don’t date because I struggle with horrible social anxiety and a truly brutal level of self-loathing. Trying to convince me that actually maybe everyone really does hate me and for good reason, too, isn’t particularly kind OR accurate.