I’ve never been in a long term relationship and never had anyone see me nude. How hard would it be for you to look past the missing nut? I’m definitely self conscious of it, but not sure if its a big deal. Lost it as a result of cancer, I’m fine now with low likelihood of recurrence. Got a nice scar from the surgery :)
I have zero interest in balls, even my own but at the end of the day I can guarantee there’s a big sizable amount of the population that likes things that are different.
they also serve no day to day or purpose really. they hold the stuff. missing one is conversational item at most, and the cancer word would cause instant ‘apologetic’ response. nobody will truly care, if they do…well bullet saved.
imo, it’s no different then wearing glasses, or being bald, or missing a finger.
The conversational element is fun. Cancer jokes are hilarious, plus they can catch people way off guard
Cancer jokes take time to grow on people.