I’ve never been in a long term relationship and never had anyone see me nude. How hard would it be for you to look past the missing nut? I’m definitely self conscious of it, but not sure if its a big deal. Lost it as a result of cancer, I’m fine now with low likelihood of recurrence. Got a nice scar from the surgery :)
Not to suggest you should surprise a partner with it, but I likely wouldn’t notice until I got up in there unless the scar was a lot more noticeable than you’re describing.
Knowing about it would probably make me a little more hesitant about how I was playing with someone’s sack but it wouldn’t be a reason not to go to bed with a potential partner.
Obviously, asking on Lemmy has a bit of respondent error involved but I don’t think you should feel self-conscious about it.
Thanks! I would definitely tell someone beforehand. I enjoy telling the story because there were some comedic elements to the whole ordeal. The scar is healed nicely barely noticeable unless I shave around it. It’s also laparoscopic so its on my lower abdomen, not in a conspicuous spot.