• @SheenTStars
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    610 months ago

    Depends on the sect and their interpretation of it, but mostly yes. There are some that allow for it only for men because “men can do stupid things if they have urges”. Source: My ustaz brother.

    • @blue_tea_latte
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      310 months ago

      but i heard from muslim friend that nafsu lelaki is controllable but nafsu perempuan cannot. reason for the harsher treatment toward women to shame them so that they scare to commit sexual related wrongdoings. something like that…