• @bigboig@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      176 months ago

      I think of it like getting better public transport. Even if you don’t use it, other people will and that will give you more space

    • @UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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      146 months ago

      In Houston, during the 60s, you could drive out into the wilderness once you passed 610.

      But with urban sprawl all the way out to Conroe, Katy, and Rosenberg, what used to be a 15 minute drive has turned into hours in the car to escape the edge of the city.

      Every new subdivision pushed the rural neighborhoods farther and farther away.

    • nifty
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      6 months ago

      I feel the same way, I don’t mind people but in small, small, smaaaaaall doses. But cities like that are great for others, I don’t have to live there.

      • @RiderExMachina@lemmy.ml
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        146 months ago

        Y’all might be imagining NYC levels of density and, while that’s important, is definitely several steps further than what’s needed to make America not terrible. Something like rowhouses or even 4-plexes would be an improvement, and that would, at max, only add 50-100 more people to the average city block.

        If you already live in a neighborhood, you would really only be interacting with your neighbors as you do now. It’s not as if your entire city is going to be in the same 15 minute stretch.

        • @themelm@sh.itjust.works
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          26 months ago

          Plus you can still just put headphones in and quickly dash home to lock yourself away just like now. And I’m sure you’ll still be able to get people to deliver things to you even if those people are on foot or bike.

      • DroneRights [it/its]
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        26 months ago

        Dutch cities are way quieter and more peaceful than American cities. This is because cars are loud.

    • @Socsa@sh.itjust.works
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      36 months ago

      In a weird way the higher density is actually liberating because it gives you cover for just ignoring everyone. It’s a cognitive trick which takes a bit of practice, but eventually there is a strange solace in urban life.

      I lived in suburbs and a small town for about half my life and those places get smaller the longer you are there. You run into someone you know whenever you go out, and people are always waving or saying hi because they think that’s just being friendly. In the city nobody is going to say hi or wave at 3000 people per day. And nobody get labeled rude or antisocial for it.