• haui
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    18 months ago

    Consciously I know that. But having lived under cruelty for many years I cant compute it emotionally in this case. The amount of cruelty needed to drive someone to suicide (not saying its always like this) is just not bearable for me.

      • haui
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        18 months ago

        No idea what you‘re talking about.

        Nobody can really say what drives a person to suicide but afaik, it is a culmination of things:

        • hardship
        • loneliness
        • lack of positive perspective

        Having hardship but still having friends and family to combat it or a positive perspective on life might save someone.

        But leaving someone who already spent effort to help others in particular need - likely having a history of spousal abuse themselves - ridiculing them which drives them to suicide is beyond cruel imo.

        Thats why I‘m pretty devoid of empathy towards the people responsible.