• @janNatan@lemmy.ml
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    51 month ago

    Yes, my boyfriend! It seems so odd when I see straight people use the term partner. Well, as far as I’m concerned, they can have it.

    • @WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      121 month ago

      As a man who has used the term partner in a heterosexual relationship, sometimes it is nice to have a term that implies a bigger commitment than “girlfriend” when you have no intention of marriage. That was definitely how I used it—to convey that this woman doesn’t have a ring, but I give her maximum authority when it comes to my affairs.

      • @janNatan@lemmy.ml
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        61 month ago

        Can’t relate. I grew up thinking marriage would always be illegal for me. When I had the opportunity, I took it.

        • @WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          101 month ago

          I’m glad you had that chance. Marriage is something I never particularly wanted, but I was brought around to the idea by a different lady. Now we are in counseling and things are on the rocks…I think I may still not believe in marriage, but I respect everyone’s right to choose for themselves.

          • @Eldbogi@sopuli.xyz
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            230 days ago

            Hey man.

            I hope that whatever happens with you and your wife, that you’ll be happy and have a bright and good future.

            • Thanks, I appreciate that. It’s a weird thing when two intelligent people with good intentions suddenly experience a breakdown in communication, but I’m hoping that is what the counseling can help with.