• @OrlandoDoom@feddit.uk
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    241 year ago

    Serious answer: Anyone who identifies as one.

    I literally can’t pin it down more than that as there are exceptions to every rule. Same goes for a man.

  • Margot Robbie
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    151 year ago

    Leaving your drink unattended in public spaces is a terrible idea in general.

  • Gregor
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    121 year ago

    Why would they cover their drinks? I don’t get it @-@

    • can
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      361 year ago

      Never leave your drink unattended.

      • @MutilationWave@lemmy.world
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        171 year ago

        No doubt. People do this shit even without rape plans. Either they think it’s funny or someone pissed them off so they decided to ruin their night or perhaps their life.

        My friend got dosed in Denver and ended up with multiple charges due to his behavior. He had two drinks at a bar, left, then did insane things that can’t be explained by just being shitfaced.

        • @Anivia@feddit.org
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          71 year ago

          No doubt. People do this shit even without rape plans. Either they think it’s funny or someone pissed them off so they decided to ruin their night or perhaps their life.

          Don’t forget mugging them

    • @Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      61 year ago

      Whenever you next attend a wedding, watch how many women take their drinks with them to the dance floor. That’s the threat environment women live in every day

  • @shalafi@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I want to say y’all are paranoid. But.

    My wife came home one night, hammered. OK. Fuck me, she drove home?! Not proud to say, but we drank and drove a lot in those days, got a hotel or cab if we were smashed.

    Next day she doesn’t remember a thing but having a second drink at the bar with the girls. Nothing else. C’mon! Could hardly believe it, chewed her out for driving drunk, she insisted she only had 2 or 3 drinks. Bullshit. Takes more than a couple of drinks for us to black out. Hell, we never got that drunk.

    She got to talking to her friends that were regulars at that bar. Regulars who had the same bar tender. Same exact experiences. You add it up.

    She wouldn’t report it. Because what are you going to report exactly?

    Having said all this, that’s my only story on the subject. And I’ve done a lot of sketchy shit, ran with sketchy people. Date rape drugs are not as common as you might think. But they are indeed a thing.

    • @lurklurk@lemmy.world
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      31 year ago

      Oh, it’s surprisingly common. There are even occasional bursts of people cutting out the middle-person and going for directly injecting people on the dance floor

      It’s scary out there

      (and don’t drive drunk kids; you’re risking innocent lives because you’re too cheap to get a cab. Not a good look)

    • @jol@discuss.tchncs.de
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      21 year ago

      “Date drugs” are super common and easy to buy. Psychopaths that actually use them on unconsenting people, fortunately not very common. But common enough thst I would never leave my drink unattended.

    • @lud@lemm.ee
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      -11 year ago

      Could hardly believe it, chewed her out for driving drunk, she insisted she only had 2 or 3 drinks

      Only? You shouldn’t drive if you have had any drinks.

    • Omega
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      71 year ago

      Spiking a drink, apparently

      They’re saying, by relation, that they look like a rapist

    • @lurklurk@lemmy.world
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      In logic, finding a case where a statement isn’t true is a very common and correct way to disprove that statement. So the proposition that “a woman has xx chromosomes and is born with a vagina”, would actually be logically disproved by the counter-examples you bring up.

    • apotheotic (she/her)
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      91 year ago

      I mean, thats a very naive opinion formed on outdated knowledge of the human biology. I’d be happy to share resources with you if you actually want to learn.