Also, the first class tickets for the train were totally worth it.

  • @Lazycog@sopuli.xyz
    link
    fedilink
    712 months ago

    Still remember your post months ago asking for advice for moving. I’m happy it worked out for you and your family squid! Hope you guys can settle down soon (I’m sure there’s tons of paper work and other bullshit) and relax!

    • Flying SquidOP
      link
      fedilink
      362 months ago

      Hasn’t quite worked out yet. I still need to find a job (but I have interviews lined up) We came over a little early because we were worried that when the deportation start, everyone who can grab the first plane they came out of the US. We might never get out otherwise.

      • metaStatic
        link
        fedilink
        232 months ago

        good to see you didn’t wait to find out, the Berlin wall went up overnight after all.

      • Aaron
        link
        fedilink
        132 months ago

        You’ve done right by your daughter. Good luck on the job search!

      • @Lazycog@sopuli.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        72 months ago

        Wish I could help, but I’m not in UK. Nevertheless, I believe in you and keeping my fingers crossed that you find a job quickly.

      • @corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        English
        42 months ago

        worried that when the deportation start, everyone who can grab the first plane they came out of the US

        The logic is sound. Flights will be snapped up like pandemic loo roll.

  • southsamurai
    link
    fedilink
    492 months ago

    Wait, wait, wait, you can not be pulling this shit!

    Are you a flying squid or not?

        • ⓝⓞ🅞🅝🅔
          link
          fedilink
          82 months ago

          Many would be curious about the path to emigration you took. Have you shared about this anywhere?

            • @lordnikon@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              English
              12
              edit-2
              2 months ago

              I’m in the same boat as you already have my citizenship and flying over in October to scope out a few cities and meet up with family and work out paperwork to transfer my job since I’m full time remote and so is my wife.

          • There’s a lot of places in Europe that have an ‘accident of birth’ path to citizenship (jus sanguinis vs jus soli). Here’s the ones I found:

            • If you’re of Jewish ancestry and your family fled due to the Holocaust, there’s a number of European countries that will return your citizenship. Unfortunately my mom’s family is Russian Jews.
            • Ireland, if one of your grandparents was a citizen. This applies to my father, but not to me
            • Luxembourg (where I proceed to dox myself, lol) if you’ve got a direct line male lineage back to Luxembourg between 1850 and 1947 (or male until a female born after 1970-something, Google Luxembourg article 7 citizenship). This actually does apply to me and I know more about it, but I’ve barely started the process because uprooting my life to flee somewhere safer again is a truly miserable prospect, and the choice of agencies are either a non-profit that I can afford and maybe have some money left over to relocate but they’re slower and they don’t seem keen to deal with my document mismatch due to being trans and from Florida, or a much faster, more trans friendly and expensive business.
  • HubertManne
    link
    fedilink
    412 months ago

    Even though you are a relative stranger on the internet its really inspiring to see you do this.

  • Bone
    link
    fedilink
    102 months ago

    Good luck to you and your family, Squid. You took action!

    • @GhostTheToast@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      32 months ago

      Feel free to not answer because this is identifiable info. However, how did you emigrate? Where to? Did you have a family with you or just yourself?

      Admittedly, while I think America is a shit hole as well, It’s got to get pretty bad before I’ll be able to convince my wife. However, I’m trying to plan out our escape plan.

  • Skua
    link
    fedilink
    102 months ago

    Welcome to our little grey rock. It has been a warm winter, but if it gets cold enough to snow in your area then your cultural induction to our society is to endure half of the country shutting down in a panic

    • Flying SquidOP
      link
      fedilink
      182 months ago

      She has been an amazing trooper. Other than a breakdown after a really stressful situation where we missed the first train, then got on the wrong train a second time and had to climb up and back down a ton of stairs with our suitcases (understandable at that point) she has really made me proud of her. Especially considering how hard it is for autistic kids dealing with change. We’ll see how she fares tomorrow.

      • @arudesalad@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        102 months ago

        Good luck to both of you! If you would like some help I can reccomend Evan Edinger’s videos on his experience migrating to the UK. It may not be useful to a teen though, but he does have a couple videos comparing the UK and US school systems.

        • Flying SquidOP
          link
          fedilink
          62 months ago

          Thanks! Always good to have as much research material as possible in these situations.

  • atro_city
    link
    fedilink
    92 months ago

    I remember seeing the post about you looking for a job there. Congrats on making it out!