I can’t tell you how many times I had ended up with little to no blankets after sleeping 4 four hours. Eventually, spouse and I decided that we would get two full-size blankets for the bed so that we could each have one. This has prevented so many restless nights.
In some countries, Germany, Sweden, etc., people have been doing this for a very long time. 1 bed 2 duvets.
My wife and I have been doing two single duvets on our queen bed after doing it at an Airbnb in Germany
And it remains a mystery to me why anyone would want to share a blanket (other than for cuddles).
Yep. I am Swedish and can confirm this. It’s mighty annoying when we’re traveling abroad and the hotel will only supply one blanket. My gf tends to roll around in her sleep and steal everything.
Next level: Separate bedrooms. Fight the social stigma that this would somehow mean there’s a problem in the relationship and accept that most people get better sleep when not next to someone else. Also helps sharing the sleep disruption when the kids are young and climb into the bed at night for whatever reasons.
We have started using the spare room whenever one of us has a cold, has a different schedule, or we have something important the next day. But for other nights the simple pleasure of waking up next to one another is worth a small dip in sleep quality.