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Cake day: June 18th, 2023

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  • Don’t have a partner atm, but if I am dating someone, I don’t mind checking in a couple of times a day, but two things:

    • my partner shouldn’t expect me to reply immediately.
    • checking in should be for a reason (ex: you come across a silly dad joke and you want to share), for instance the daily good morning/good night would eventually feel like a chore to me in the long run, like a list of things you need to tick off on a checklist.












  • As mentioned in my previous reply, I believe with time, !malaysia_zh and !mandarin_monyet will gradually establish their unique identities, there really is no need for any admin intervention.

    That said, I will post something (maybe tonight) on the meta community (suggestion and feedback) related to what’s happening right now. There might be some underlying issues that the admins have already noticed but nobody has talked about yet.

    Please do! Malaysian Lemmy community is less than 2-weeks old, so there are things that we might have overlooked. We welcome any site feedback on the meta community.





  • Hey, thanks for the tag!

    Yes, everyone is free to create their own desired community and I am aware that there is a similar community as yours, but given that both your communities are still in infancy stage and to add to that, my firm belief that with time, increased activity, and active participation, !malaysia_zh and !mandarin_monyet will gradually establish their unique identities.

    There is a reasoning behind why I’m creating this community.

    I have no doubt you had a clear vision in mind when you started this community! This is what sets Malaysian Lemmy apart from Reddit; here you can take ownership of your own communities by having the freedom to determine what works best for you, establish and enforce your own rules, which may differ very significantly from those of mandarin_monyet.