jellodi

Bite me.

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • Been a while since I was on here, irl tings :pepecringe:

    By the way, where do we go to see updates on lemmy functionalities? As it is, it’s kinda hard to expand, UI is incredibly hard to get used to. Plus no emojis, no gifs. Even BB forums got those like 23 years ago. Can’t even provide image url to display need to upload? :O


  • I don’t think the telco would care, the contract is valid, they cannot resell the phone.

    What you can do is ask her either pay it herself (change to her name) or ask for the phone back. If she refuses to do both, let her know that it is your property, and that you can make a police report against her for theft. If she is not fazed, then go ahead and make that police report.

    You can at best case scenario retrieve the phone back (with all the accessories and box if possible) and resell it to pay for the penalty. You may not recover everything, but it’s better than nothing. You can also ask if you can cancel her sim card and use the line for your own. You may not get the phone back, but at least you can make use of the line somehow (hotspot or sth).





  • nope! and I don’t like the ideas of calls either. I think the advice above is for specific type of girls.

    If hesitate then just move on? Yeah I suppose if you’re getting that many matches, but girls who hesitate don’t mean they are not interested, they just have concerns. I think it’s valid. Cannot be too eager. and I feel like the pace above maybe works for people in their 20s? But older probably too fast-moving. Having someone is nice, but I’m not about to hang on to every single text I get, we’re working and tired.




















  • I haven’t, and I’m not sure if I could. The whole point of relo is to have someone to come home to, and I’m not much of a chatter tbh (despite what it might seem like online). I notice that once I get comfortable with someone, I stop chatter and just like their presence near me. It’s number 1 signal that I’m in a great place with them: that I no longer have to keep talking to ensure that they are still interested in me.

    Not sure if that’s a good thing tbh lel.


  • I’m not so certain there would be pressure, I mean it’s sort of what one should expect since we’re putting ourselves out there… Even if there is pressure, maybe this would be good practice to not do things out of pressure? :S Not something we don’t have control over though, we could always put these in a disclaimer that you have to agree to when you sign up.

    Most likely the people who signed up would not use their username but a nickname that they would actually use to introduce themselves as irl, or at least, that was what I had in mind. Also it’s sort of a control test so it’s by design; if I am hosting it, then I am responsible. I also serve as a gatekeeper; some girls may be too cavalier about giving out their info or what not and vice versa. I dunno, so many things that we have yet to experience until we actually do it to be able to see this from all angles.