• @MTK@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    I know this is very vanilla (which I am not) but a threesome probably.

    I have plenty of kinks that I have tried because I talk to my partner openly and they are very supportive and open minded.

    But I only enjoy sex with people that I have a deep connection with and I am strictly monogamous (nothing against other options, just too mentally draining for me to love multiple people) so I can’t really see a situation where I would have two people I have a deep connection with that is sexual, or a partner and a friend I am willing to have sex with, since I don’t have many friends and I wouldn’t want to complicate things by adding sex.

    One possible option might be if my partner had a someone they really wanted to add and I would go with it, but I doubt I would enjoy it too much, probably just do it for my partner.

    • @PrettyFlyForAPornGuy@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      22 days ago

      Maybe you should get a couples profile on fet. if you can build a friendship with someone or a group of people with a view to maybe eventually including them in your activities with your partner then you don’t run the risk of ruining an existing friendship.