Yeah, I’ve considered the idea of looking for a sub for both of us, but it has never really been a priority and my partner is quite vanilla all things considered, but at least we agree that if it would ever happen it would be a woman as she is at least sexually bi.
While I consider myself more on the dom side, I’ve never experienced much on it so it feels daunting to have someone trust you that way but also depend on you. It is a mental barrier that would block me I’m afraid if I tried it. And as you put it, also a lot of work. For the moment, I’m OK leaving it as fantasy, not all fantasies need to be achieved :)
I’m straight and subbing for a couple is the only way I’d enjoy lady-sex, maybe you really should try it, it would be fun I bet. Also you don’t need to be bi to enjoy domming a man together. Especially someone who might enjoy humiliation.
@RBWellsV23@evil_mal would you be agnostic about which member of the couple has control, or the hierarchy between the three of you? For example, would you enjoy being required to pleasure her more if it was at his insistence?
I very much respond more to guy doms. Would enjoy a couple sort of ganging up on me though, and can’t be the only straight lady who feels like that. So either one I think, just be a toy to use for awhile, right? I don’t have to enjoy all of it sexually to enjoy the whole experience.
I think they should try it, that it would probably be more fun & less work than they think. Really, you can always do stuff like watch a movie together and make her serve, not let her on the couch, right? It doesn’t have to be a just a marathon sex thing. Treat her like a pet or toy.
@RBWellsV23 it absolutely doesn’t have to be all overtly sexual. Underlying servitude and humiliation, being a toy, is always sexuality: if they own you then they also own your sex and just the implicit understanding that they could choose to use you sexually as they please is enough to charge the atmosphere and the dynamic.
You could just be their footstool, you could be exposed, you could be subject to impromptu wetness checks, you could just be their house girl. The effect is the same
Maybe you should find a sub to share.
I like the idea of a slave/slaves but i imagine it would end up being a lot of work
Yeah, I’ve considered the idea of looking for a sub for both of us, but it has never really been a priority and my partner is quite vanilla all things considered, but at least we agree that if it would ever happen it would be a woman as she is at least sexually bi.
While I consider myself more on the dom side, I’ve never experienced much on it so it feels daunting to have someone trust you that way but also depend on you. It is a mental barrier that would block me I’m afraid if I tried it. And as you put it, also a lot of work. For the moment, I’m OK leaving it as fantasy, not all fantasies need to be achieved :)
I’m straight and subbing for a couple is the only way I’d enjoy lady-sex, maybe you really should try it, it would be fun I bet. Also you don’t need to be bi to enjoy domming a man together. Especially someone who might enjoy humiliation.
@RBWellsV23 @evil_mal would you be agnostic about which member of the couple has control, or the hierarchy between the three of you? For example, would you enjoy being required to pleasure her more if it was at his insistence?
I very much respond more to guy doms. Would enjoy a couple sort of ganging up on me though, and can’t be the only straight lady who feels like that. So either one I think, just be a toy to use for awhile, right? I don’t have to enjoy all of it sexually to enjoy the whole experience.
I think they should try it, that it would probably be more fun & less work than they think. Really, you can always do stuff like watch a movie together and make her serve, not let her on the couch, right? It doesn’t have to be a just a marathon sex thing. Treat her like a pet or toy.
@RBWellsV23 it absolutely doesn’t have to be all overtly sexual. Underlying servitude and humiliation, being a toy, is always sexuality: if they own you then they also own your sex and just the implicit understanding that they could choose to use you sexually as they please is enough to charge the atmosphere and the dynamic.
You could just be their footstool, you could be exposed, you could be subject to impromptu wetness checks, you could just be their house girl. The effect is the same