It’s not fun interacting with them when they often want to engage in ad hominems. This is why I have no interest in the tankie triad.
It’s not fun interacting with them when they often want to engage in ad hominems. This is why I have no interest in the tankie triad.
I disagree with your framing. I think you’re being dishonest in your framing on what caused the mod actions. At the end of the day we and Ada are beholden to our respective users, and as it turns out, they think those were the right choices.
And yes, we’re going to take action about harassment of our own users, that’s the duty of an instance admin. I want to point out however that all this brouhaha is over a 7days ban. Literally the mildest of punishments ever, and you’re at the point of pondering what’s rotten in the whole instance and writing walls of text, over a short term “chill out” ban.
I can’t count how many times someone on or off blahaj tried to explain that Dragonrider’s trolling, encouraging other users to suicide, things like that, were the core of the issue. If you really want to join Ada in pretending that there’s a whole Lemmy population that’s just frothing at the mouth to dictate to other people what pronouns they can and can’t use, and that was what got them heated up about Dragonrider and nothing about any of the other stuff, I won’t stop you. I started to dig up old messages to put together a timeline, but then I realized I don’t care and I think the issue is pretty clear enough already.
This was pretty much my point. lemmy.ml and Hexbear love how their admins behave, and that’s all the admins feel like they need to know. My point was that (a) you’re starting to operate along the same lines, it looks like, and (b) that’s not always a good thing.
Personally, I don’t care about the ban itself. I actually agree with you that PugJesus making a whole community to whine about how unfair it is is kind of childish. I care more about the bullying and fact-free mentality, that big thread with people making up nonsense about the target of the day.
Any admins should act upon harassment of one of their users, especially if the admins of the harassers don’t.
Isn’t that the concept of !yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com since its inception?
Honestly, I think calling what’s ongoing “bullying” is kinda strange. If anything we wanted to cool the situation down.
I would rather show me which admins are more centered on what every rando on the internet thinks. Then I can point you to someone about to have a burnout.
Quotes from the thread:
And so on. There’s plenty more, that’s just what I had patience to dig up.
Those aren’t the only two options lol. I’m just saying that “Our users/tribe love that we always take the side of our users/tribe no matter the facts of the situation!” isn’t the good justification that it sounds like, when you phrase it differently than I just did.
Not sure which thread you mean, but If you think people expressing their low opinions about someone is “bullying”, then, well you haven’t experienced bullying. And also, what the hell do you expect of dbzer0 admins to do about people expressing such opinions? You want us to go around protecting the people you like from public opinion? Like, this is a legit absurd argument path.
It’s easy to look right when fighting against strawmen.
You just asked for examples of bullying, so I provided. What did you expect me to bring up, was someone sneaking through his window and punching him in the face? I’m not sure what other than personal insults could be meant by that. If it was bringing up examples of wrong things he did, then sure. Some people did that, some people lied about it (claiming he’d said one thing when he’d said the exact opposite), some people actively refused to provide any evidence but just threw insults at him and then peaced out. The first thing, I’d have no problem with, the others I feel like are worth worrying about at least a little bit.
I want you to stop protecting the people you like from public opinion. I’m completely fine with everyone just being able to have their say, although maybe certain levels of personal abuse shouldn’t be tolerated. But it’s very clearly one-sided. The dbzer0 people have been describing downvoting as “abuse,” so yes, I would say aiming extensive cursing and personal insults at someone and accusing them of things they didn’t do can be “bullying,” or at least something that’s worthy of mods weighing in on it, like they would pounce instantly if someone said something about Sam Altman or something.
Edit: Actually, maybe a better way to explain it: Go back to every one of the quotes I listed about PugJesus. If people came into a dbzer0 thread and said the exact same types of things about Ada, would that be okay? Or would it be a problem that required mod / admin attention?
That’s what bugs me about it, it’s the blatant tribalism of it. You permabanned a trans person just recently because they tried (again, for the thousandth time) to explain what the issue was with Dragonrider, and you didn’t like that, so ban for “pissy.” They’re not in the club, so fuck them. Everyone got all up in arms about ban reason “tankie,” but you’re fine with comment removed for “shut the fuck up, liberal” (I actually 100% agree with removing that comment – my point is that the slurs are starting to be celebrated, and only go one way, and that’s not a good thing.)
One of your people has just recently invented a new slur (“slopper”) to use to attack people they disagree with as they are being banned. I have no idea the context or what it means, although I can guess.
You get the idea. I don’t want to go back and forth about extensively. I have no idea how much of this is you, or the admin team, or whoever. I actually think probably most of what I see as most worrying is not coming from the admin team. But the culture shift is alarming to me. It’s all about attack, slurs, new fun insults. We need to protect “our users” against downvotes. Other users, on other instances, who got rando-banned, well, fuck them, they’re not “ours,” so who cares.
You get the idea. Maybe not. Anyway, that’s what I think about it.
Why yes, we do tolerate people badmouthing Ada, dessalines, nutomic, and even our own admins. Hell I’ve personally tolerated dozens of angry hexbears trying to bully myself in my own thread in my own comm. We do indeed walk the walk.
There’s no “tribalism” here, no matter how much you keep repeating it. In all honestly it reads to me you’re more upset people are not sufficiently polite in disagreement. Anarchists can and will be rude, especially towards people like PJ routinely but politely calling them “nazis” for not engaging in the electoralism farce. Nobody is under any onus to remain polite to spare your feelings, nor does this make is a “tribe” because we tend to attract anarchists who feel the same way about liberals.
Fuck I don’t even know at this point what your problem even is, that we attract like-minded people in our instance? We don’t want to be lemmy.world for a reason and if you want that, well lemmy.world already exists.
Seriously, We’re not going to go around policing people for rudeness. This is absurd and will not work whatsoever.
Absolutely, you should not. People should be able to say what they want, if that somehow wasn’t clear. What I was saying was that it’s very silly to ban people for criticizing your decisions in clear and rational language[1], or for their politics, or for very tenuous claims of “ableism” if you just kind of don’t like the content of what they have to say[2], or to call downvotes “abuse” and try to protect certain ones of your communities against getting downvotes by literally banning anyone who tries to give one to the content… but then, when the target is outside the kid-gloves safe space, turn loose this massive drama-cannon with wild insults and accusations and say “Yes! All good, our admins will join in in fact!” and then now hide behind this thing of “Oh ho that’s just the wild west of the ol’ internet for ya, free speech ya know” that you would never put up with if someone tried to, for example, give YOU a downvote or a dissenting comment[3], because that’s abusive and they’re a troll now.
This whole thing originated because you’ve been slinging around bans for people who don’t get with the program you want them to get with or say things to you that you don’t like. I didn’t come to you whining to ask you to stop anyone being mean to me, I actually got involved because you wanted PugJesus to stop being mean to your comments and posts because he’s not allowed. I’m much more in favor of people being able to have their say, I mostly object to the banhammering side, I’m just now poking at the hypocrisy of it.
Up to you though. You’ve clearly decided, I’m just repeating at this point, so cheers I guess.
Ok basically your argument devolves to misrepresenting and trivializing why we took any admin actions. I think you’re being massively disingenuous and not worth it discussing with at this point, but I’ll repeat, if our instance members think we’re as hypocritical as you do, they’re welcome to open the relevant governance posts and reign us in. It won’t happen, cause we aren’t of course.
Anyway I won’t bother with this thread anymore. I have no patience for people who misrepresent the facts quite that much just to win internet arguments.
You probably are not aware, but that user is known to be toxic. A lot of the mod action reasons is “be respectful”.
https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/modlog?userId=18071443
Context:
From a more recent thread
Slopper is a slur? Lmao
Apparently the only real form of bullying is downvoting
Downvoting a divide by zero user is apparently harassment.
People say this stuff and then claim that we’re doing bad faith takes. Go figure.
As we know, bad faith is when you defend yourself with evidence and good faith is when you make shit up to slander people and groups.
They are very smart.
That’s literally the reason you cited, and the admin ban, for all of this
If you feel that statement is in bad faith, maybe you should have a talk with Unruffled about their wanton banning of users for “mod abuse” over users downvoting them.
Why, yes s it is bad faith to misrepresent the cause of the mod action and then double down on it.
In any case, feel free to open a yptb post if you’re do certain our cause was trivial.
If you think that’s misrepresenting the situation, you either don’t know the situation or are complacent in it. Hence why I have blocked your instance.
So you keep saying. I don’t just think that, I know that. And given that it’s very easy for people to call us out on it officially and yet nobody seems to want to, I’m fairly confident we’ve taken the right decision. Unlike other instances, we welcome criticism of admin actions as we don’t think we’re infallible.
Can’t complain about the mod and admin abuse on your instance when the mods and admins doing the abuse banned people from the community used to report mod/admin abuse.
Do you even check your own mod logs?
It’s a bit of a conflict of interest if the place used to publicly report mod/admin abuse keeps shutting down any and all reports of your own mods and admins.
You can still complain and document and report. Nothing is stopping you or anyone else.
And if people don’t like the admins here we can vote them out. I have full faith they would remove themselves.
Why not use !modabuse@lemmy.sdf.org or whatever other secondary ypt community there is?
We’ve never banned people because they reported mod abuse from our own team. If people have been instance banned we would even allow others to open a yptb post on their behalf and I would personally even allow an alt.
This is not idle talk either, we’ve done this already.