• @jabathekek@sopuli.xyz
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    9 months ago

    part of the in-group that gets this treatment.

    White, good-looking, male, between the ages of 25-44 and/or has personal relationships with the administration/owners of the hospital through family.

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      49 months ago

      Bingo! I’m normally part of the out-group for being poor, gay, and unpopular – but I never realized how drastically different people can be treated based on appearance until I started dating my now-husband who is Hispanic and has darker skin

      One of the most obvious experiences is going into any higher-end store and observing the staff’s reaction and treatment of me vs. him. Nordstrom has been one of the worst offenders, to the point that we no longer even go in there.

      But it absolutely happens in healthcare, too!