• @exasperation@lemm.ee
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        29 hours ago

        Yeah when zoomers first showed up to adulthood I remember being surprised when they started ripping on Millennials first (making fun of our love of gifs, single panel memes, Harry Potter, etc.). It was a “what he say fuck me for?” moment and it’s been going on ever since.

  • @surph_ninja@lemmy.world
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    Beware of accounts promoting division between millennials & Gen Z. They’re trying to prevent a powerful political alliance.

  • @NovaOG@lemm.ee
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    281 day ago

    Key point here: Millennials still make an effort to hang out, outside of the internet. Hoo boy that birth rate is really going to plummet. Lets see how well the capitalist’s infinite growth system works when the next 3 generations are smaller then each other. How does retirement work for the proles?

    • @space_iio@sopuli.xyz
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      111 day ago

      If you think capitalism is bad wait until you see what’s coming next: neofeudalism

      Extremely wealthy few who control everything. No more payment, you’ll simply be a serf. No more owning, you won’t own anything, all in your life will be leased.

      In that world, you have kids because your told to, or else. Individual freedom? What are you a lord? A feudal master?

      • @GoodLuckToFriends@lemmy.today
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        41 day ago

        I doubt anyone will have to be told to have kids. Putting people in misery will leave them grasping at anything to have a moment’s respite of pleasure. Right now they can do that with hobbies and ‘toys.’ In the future? Only the embrace of your fellow miserable hopefully-only-half-kin will be an option, and kids will start popping out.

    • That’s ok. At this point trump’ll tank it all first, saving us the reich wing tax incentives to bang out kids and talibangelicals preventing women from obtaining jobs or higher education so they can stay barefoot and pregnant kn the kitchen.

  • FreshLight
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    Y’know what? There are people in every generation causing clichés and also enough people ranting about others clichés. As long as it’s in good humour, that’s fine.

  • Gorgritch_Umie_Killa
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    I don’t want a fucken culture war between the generations like what happened with baby boomers. Gen X forward are all fine by me, live your life, be conscientious of other people and where they’re at in life, and for shits sakes lets be open to changing our societies based on different generational challenges. The generational wars were always stoked by cynical conservative bread and circuses propaganda, fuck em, stop paying them attention.

    • Banana
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      And this is why my millennial D&D group invites zoomers to join us, no better way to bridge that gap!

      • In my experience Millenials are super inviting to Zoomers, but not the other way around. But that could just be because they are literally slightly more mature than Gen Z.

        • djsoren19
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          91 day ago

          I dunno if it’s maturity or just…

          Look I interact with a lotta kids, and they are not alright. If you told me a large number of zoomers literally did not know how to invite their friends to real life activities, I would believe you. I’ve spoken with a lot of Zoomers who are so socially awkward they don’t seem to understand a spoken conversation. I feel like we have an obligation to invite them to stuff, just to show them that there is a world off the net that’s worth living in.

        • That’s how it always is. It has nothing to do with the “generation,” but more the stage of life someone is at.

          I didn’t get invited to things with people a generation or two older than me when I was younger, because I was an immature little jerk. Now I do, because my stage of life is a lot more similar to theirs now that my kids are more independent and I’ve learned to behave.

        • Banana
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          I very met some very mature Gen Z! They just happen to be the ones that don’t spend a lot of time on social media haha

          • @Fungah@lemmy.world
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            11 day ago

            You’re right, I should have some purely physical, no strings attached flings with multiple women in their mid 20s.

            • @grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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              No law against it, but not sure you’ve grokked the spirit of my original statement. It’s about building solidarity. I would add including across gender lines in your case.

              If I were to prescribe a resolution for you this year it would be to become really good friends with 1 woman, and to fuck 1 man.

              I’m serious. If you haven’t tried it already, then I think it might really shake some baggage loose for you.

              • @Fungah@lemmy.world
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                I’m with you on the value of platonic female friendships. Miss me with banging s dude though. And you make a wonderful point about having intense, passionate, no strings attached sexually charged, animalistic flings with women in their mid 20s.

    • Gen X and Millennials share quite a lot of culture in common. We grew up with not only a lot of the same pastimes, but the same media franchises as well. We played a lot of the same games. We both remember a time before everything was digital. Most of us were all latchkey kids and shared the same types of rebellion. We don’t really share that to the same degree with other generations.

      I really like Zoomers culture, but I wish I could connect with it more. I get their values and everything you can study. I play DnD with a few of them. It just seems like a different culture. While that’s fine it does mean I have to find a way to relate. “Ah yes, I see your characteristic lack of self awareness and raise you my arrested development and my compatriots funkyo pop obsession. Well met.”

    • cynical conservative bread and circuses propaganda

      It’s not “conservatives,” it’s mainstream media in general. Mainstream media lives and dies by viewership/readership, and the thing that sells clicks/views the most is drama. Age related drama is timeless and relatively easy pickings, because it doesn’t really matter what you say about a given generation, a number of people will identify with it, a number will disagree, and everyone seems to have an opinion.

      It’s incredibly stupid and a big reason why I generally avoid mainstream media, except for coverage of important regional, national, and international news.

    • @SuperSaiyanSwag@lemmy.zip
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      Same, but I gotta say that I have noticed a trend of zoomers just calling everything Millennials do as cringe. Usually every generation makes fun of the next generation, but this time it’s the other way around. Making millennials the target of both the older and younger generations.

  • Suddenly realizes no one under 30 goes to the bars he goes to

    Holy shit. I never thought about it, really.

    I don’t go anywhere exclusive or special, really. They’re just not fucking there. 😯

    • @Orangutanion@lemmy.world
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      There’s no reason. Drinking is expensive and even if you have friends it’s easier to talk to/play with them online. Also, women keep telling us they don’t want to be approached at bars, so now bars are losing the quick-fuck market.

      • @turnip@lemm.ee
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        Central Bank QE skyrocketed asset prices and rents increased dramatically, and higher interest rates need to crash the economy to restore balance. Its all the ebb and flow of monetary policy, which has dramatically misallocated capital via cheap debt.

  • @laserm@lemmy.world
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    Meanwhile me, who is lonely to tears, yet drinks alone and consumes brainrot content at the same time while crying:

    • @Mouette@jlai.lu
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      Hey, hope you’ll learn to deal with self destructing habits, every steps in the right direction matters !

      And dont be too harsh on yourself, perfect is ennemy of good as we say in France, especially if its derail you from wanting to get better :)

    • The first step to not doing that is to stop doing that.

      You can DM me and we can be buddies. There’s a lot of social groups or clubs you can join to make some friends- I know that advice is tired, but it really works.

      Do you have some hobbies? I’ll help you find a community or three. Don’t have any hobbies? Let me know what you like and we’ll find you some fun ones.

      I know this is ironic on social media, but unplugging really helps me relax. Just no social media for a month. When I get antsy about it I do mindfulness exercises.

      This one is just a personal recommendation though: I don’t like to drink when I’m down. It’s like keeping your head underwater while you’re drowning. I know it can be a release, but I was able to find other releases and I think avoiding alcohol when I’m down has gone a long way to making me happier.

      • @Fungah@lemmy.world
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        This is all good advice, but even if you don’t follow it at least part of the issue isn’t that you’re alone, but what you’re doing while you’re alone…

        Like. Years ago I decided to build a nine foot tall statue in the living room of my one bedroom apartment. It took me months, and it’s actually terrifying, but it also interests people. Like. No one responds to “I have an eight and a half foot tall statue in my living room” with “okay”.

        Having hobbies isn’t just a way to meet people, it’s a way to learn new skills, grow as a person, and have something you can look back on and say “I did that”.

        If you spent all your time alone building or making things you’d probably feel a lot better about the time you spent alone, and doubtlessly people would pick up on that

        • And before you say, “but hobbies are expensive,” I bet there are a lot of things you’re interested in that are cheaper than alcohol. You just need to find those things and start them.

          • @Fungah@lemmy.world
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            Yeah. I was broke af when I made my statue. It’s mostly… I guess technically mortar. Cement and sand and burlap and chicken wire. Cement is not expensive.

            • And the best thing about hobbies is you can be creative. You can go dumpster diving to get “found materials” to make a statue, or go to the thrift store, or maybe the local wrecking yard. There are a ton of options for cheap stuff that can be attached together to make something interesting.

              • @Fungah@lemmy.world
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                I’ve found some really, really weird art besides the dumpster behind my building, and the steady stream of old electronics has really helped in learning how to solder.

                You don’t even need to open up a dumpster honestly.

    • @NovaOG@lemm.ee
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      31 day ago

      Try out some MeetUp groups local to you. I found a local Web Developers hang, a local Snow time activities and a local board game groups that i’ve met some cool people from!

    • @Copythis@lemmy.world
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      I was thinking the same thing lol.

      Me and a couple buddies got motorcycles over the past year. We’re literally going to go for a ride tomorrow, then meet at the local axe throwing range. I’ve been looking forward to it all week!

        • @Copythis@lemmy.world
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          Update, it was fun! There was no axe throwing, but we did get to see a racecar, and my bike ran out of gas in the middle of nowhere. I still had fun though!