Competence is way more attractive than confidence. Guys who are good at something, that really is often so hot. Confidence can be attractive if it’s the kind that is not brash or cocky, some guys are just self-accepting in a way that lets them be accepting of other people, if that makes sense. That kind of confidence is comfortable, it puts people at ease.
Oh I completely agree! I think “competence” is a good source of confidence as it is so independent of so much other stuff. the brash or cocky level of confidence seems fake to me. So when I talk about confidence, I mean self-acceptance and self-appreciation.
Competence is way more attractive than confidence. Guys who are good at something, that really is often so hot. Confidence can be attractive if it’s the kind that is not brash or cocky, some guys are just self-accepting in a way that lets them be accepting of other people, if that makes sense. That kind of confidence is comfortable, it puts people at ease.
Oh I completely agree! I think “competence” is a good source of confidence as it is so independent of so much other stuff. the brash or cocky level of confidence seems fake to me. So when I talk about confidence, I mean self-acceptance and self-appreciation.