• @P1nkman@lemmy.world
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    63 days ago

    Oh, the mushrooms should’ve done something by now, if that’d be her thing! We just tripped over and a half week ago. She’s also demisexual, so that’d make things a bit harder for her. But fingers crossed!!

    • @Doubletake2121@lemmy.world
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      23 days ago

      That’s what the, “friend” part of FWB is for. That’s how we did it. My wife isn’t demi, but she finds it hard (if not impossible) to get off with a stranger. It’s an anxiety thing.

      What we did is, we looked around for friends, people we liked and enjoyed being around. No pressure, just if it happened, it happened. And eventually we found people we vibed with.

      I’m not saying it works for everyone, but with zero pressure on all sides, it did for us.